Posted on 27 January 2010 by Rebecca Earnshaw
I have recently separated from my partner who is in no position to pay any of our mortgage. I am struggling to work full-time with two young children but am not sure if I can afford to pay the mortgage if I work less. What can I do?
The first thing you must do is talk to your lender. No lender wants to take possession of anyone's home and it is in their interests as much as yours to reach a realistic solution with you. There are many opportunities for reducing your mortgage outgoings, such as making interest only payments, extending the term of the mortgage or even taking a payment holiday. Which is the best one for you will depend very much on your individual circumstances.
You should also speak to your local Citizens Advice Bureau. They provide free, confidential and independent advice and can help you resolve debt, benefit and housing problems. They have experience in speaking to lender's and will hold you hand through the negotiations.
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